Never too fly to get stunted on!

Even when you are at your most confident and flyest, you can never underestimate the game Trust me. I am merely a student who is still learning. I have recently been reminded of that. So, I was “dating” this guy and all seem to be going well. He was nice, intelligent, adventurous and very attentive to my needs. We were completely opposite in every way possible but that’s what made it so cool. Although we were totally different, mainly culturally, it was still very nice. It felt good to get away and see life from someone else’s perspective every now and then. As great as he was, he was still just a player on my team. I was unable to break away from the G in me and settle down. So me, being me, I’m sure that I made it clear to this guy that I was not looking to be in a relationship. Obviously, he took that to mean that it was okay for him to date and pursue other interest. Uhhhh, no! What that means is that you sit back and wait for me to decide what I want to do with you. Duh! I found out, through a social networking site, that he got back with his ex! He didn’t even tell me! Daaaaaamn homie! Yeah he’s a jerk face, and major douche lord but I won’t even bother to let him know that. By preserving my G I’m able to just simply ‘get over it.’ At the end of the day, it’s all a game. I’m still coaching my team like I’m Phil Jackson and he was far from Kobe anyway. However, it did remind me that no matter how sexy my outfit is or how MAC A LICIOUS my makeup is or how much body my hair has……I’m never too fly to be stunted on! That’s just the way it is! Remember that and it will keep you humble!

I dont have a man...but I'm not alone!

So who dares to be the big bad wolf and ask that question on the tip of all of your tongues??? Fine. I’ll ask it myself. How can I give advice about relationships when I don't even have a man?? First of all, it’s the summertime. So what I do have is a starting five and a few on the bench. Lol. Really. I don’t go to bed every night dreaming that my Prince Charming is coming to sweep me off my feet. Don’t misinterpret that to mean that I’m not dreaming of Prince Charming. He’s just not doing any sweeping! I plan on living until I am at least 110 years old so seriously what’s the point of me settling down now? I know myself very well. Monotony is not for me! (Monotony…monogamy…its all the same!). I don’t even like to wear the same pair of shoes two days in a row! For right now I’m just going to save myself the divorce proceedings and not even pretend to like you. I love them and leave them. That’s the story young adult dating life. The only long term commitment I am making these days is to my 5-inch heels. The higher the stiletto, the more it stings their poor little hearts when I’m on to the next one. That’s just the way the game goes. So as for me being single…. I don’t have a man, but I’m not alone! That’s just the way it is! If that doesn’t answer your question it’s probably because you want me to be your girl. Sorry but I’m unavailable;) To all my followers...keep it confident and keep it sexy and you wont be able to keep the fellas away!

Finally started!

So I been saying forever that I need to start a blog. Why?? Obviously because I have so much to say. I think people need to hear something different than the traditional norms and faux pas that plague their lives. I am just the girl to give it! Anything that I choose to tell will be strictly from my own thoughts and assessments from past experiences. So, if you come across something I say and you disagree or you don't like it....uhhhh... so what! Feel free to post your opinions, concerns, etc. Most of all feel free to hate on me!